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Tuesday 18 August 2015

Improving your personality


Personality is the typical pattern of thinking, feeling, and behaviors that make a person unique.  to have  a "good personality" is to be likeable, interesting and pleasant to be with. Everyone wants to be attractive to others.
Therefore, having a good personality is vital because it is your personality that determines whether people are attracted to, or shy away from you.
   Personalities are driven by our own mind, personality can be controlled and influenced. so just create one you're happy with and proud of. Here are some ways we can accompany this:
Be a better listener.  There is nothing more appealing than having someone listen to you intently making you feel like you're the only person in the world.
Read more and expand your interest. When you meet new people it gives you the opportunity to share what you know and to exchange your views with them.
Be a good conversationalist. Once you have much to contribute, learn how to talk about it with others.
Have an Opinion.A conversation has nowhere to go if you have nothing to expound on. If, however, you have an uncommon point of view or differing opinion, you are more interesting and stimulating to be with socially.
Meet New People. Make the effort to meet new people especially those unlike you. It not only exposes you to different cultures and alternative ways of doing things, it broadens your horizons.
Be yourself. each of us is unique, expressing that uniqueness is what makes us interesting.
Have a positive outlook and attitude. look for the best in people and things. Smile warmly, spread good cheer, and enliven others with your presence.
Be fun and see the humorous side of life. Everyone enjoys the company of someone who makes them laugh, or smile.
Be supportive of others.Just as you yourself welcome it, be the support for others when they need it. We all love a someone who is encouraging, believes in us and helps pick us up when we're down.
Have Integrity and treat people with respect. Being honest and true to your word will bring you the admiration, respect and gratitude of others.

We humans have the power and ability to shape our personalities however we wish. When we develop ourselves to be all that we can be, we make ourselves  happy as well as others.

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